60 Engagement Gift Ideas for Every Kind of Couple

Looking for the perfect way to celebrate a newly engaged couple? This guide rounds up 60 unique and thoughtful engagement gift ideas to suit every style, interest, and personality.


Getting the news that a close friend or family member has gotten engaged can be exhilarating — and cue a flood of happy tears. So it is only natural to want to express your excitement for the newly engaged couple by giving them a gift to mark the special occasion!

In this guide, we’ve broken down everything you need to know about giving an engagement gift. Read on for etiquette tips like when to give the gift and if you’re required to bring a gift for an engagement party (hint, you’re not), as well as 60 beautiful engagement gift ideas.


DO I HAVE TO BRING A GIFT TO AN ENGAGEMENT PARTY? & OTHER ETIQUETTE CONSIDERATIONS

Traditionally, only very close family members and friends give the couple engagement gifts; however, these days, there is no hard-and-fast rule — it varies between communities of friends and families. Unsure of what to do? Follow these engagement gift guidelines to decide:

  1. Consider the formality of the engagement party invitation. If you receive an engagement party invitation in the mail from the couple’s parents, bring a gift to the celebration and avoid showing up empty-handed. However, if you get a text message about an informal gathering with friends, pick up a bottle of wine or champagne to toast the couple.
  2. If you decide to buy an engagement gift, spend around 20% of your total gift budget. Remember that an engagement party is just the first of many occasions to celebrate the happy couple! Plan to spend another 20% on a bridal shower present and the remaining 60% on a wedding gift.
  3. There’s typically some time between a couple announcing their engagement and the actual engagement party happening, so if you bought the couple a treat when they first shared the exciting news with you, don’t feel like you need to get them another gift for their official engagement party.
  4. You may get the couple something from their registry if they have one already. However, chances are that they have not quite gotten around to that whole gift registry thing yet. If that’s the case, then check out our favorite engagement gift ideas below.

Personalized & Sentimental Gift Ideas

Small details can leave a lasting impression. These heartfelt gift ideas celebrate the couple’s story in thoughtful, meaningful ways.

1. Monogrammed Hand-Painted Candle

If you’re going the unscented candle route, make your gift feel a little more personal by picking up a pillar candle featuring the couple's initials hand-painted into the wax alongside other beautiful decorative elements.


2. Initial Monogram Embosser

The newly engaged couple’s future is sure to be filled with stationery as they dive into the wedding planning process, which is why this is such a great engagement gift idea. Giving them an embosser that elevates their initials into a beautiful logo is something they can use on their invitations, to add a DIY upgrade to cocktail napkins, and much, much more.


3. Custom Cutting Boards

Make this classic gift feel a little more special by giving the couple a cutting board customized with their names or engagement date. You’ll earn bonus points if you also go for a cutting board designed with their favorite meal in mind. For example, if you know they love to barbecue, opt for a cutting board with a moat to catch the juices that run off from perfectly cooked meat.


4. Custom Monogram Glasses

A set of heavy crystal glasses with a custom monogram will definitely become an heirloom for the happy couple as they move into this new chapter. Just be sure that you know if the couple will be taking the same last name (and whose last name they’ll be taking) before committing to a monogram with a single initial. If in doubt, opt for a design that combines the initials of their first names.


5. Personalized Coasters

A couple can never have too many coasters at home, which is why they always make for such good gifts. To celebrate an engagement, go for a set that features a beautiful monogram of their initials, celebrates their upcoming wedding date, or is something festive they can pull out for future wedding-related celebrations.


6. Personalized Ornament

If the newly engaged couple celebrates Christmas, giving them an ornament as a memento to mark the occasion is a wonderful gift idea. Look for one that can be customized with the date of their engagement and their names — it will bring back happy memories when they pull it out to hang on their tree year after year. (Pro tip: If you already know the wedding date at the time of the engagement party — and if that date is within the same calendar year — you could opt to give the couple an ornament with their wedding anniversary instead of their engagement date.)


7. Custom Keepsake Box

The time a couple spends engaged is such a unique chapter in their relationship — and one that should be commemorated! Help them collect all those special mementos with a keepsake box customized with their names, initials, and engagement or wedding date.


8. Custom Address Stamps

A custom stamp featuring the couple’s return address is a sweet engagement gift that is sure to come in handy during the wedding planning process. Be sure to double-check how the couple plans to handle their last names before ordering, and when in doubt order a stamp that features both of their full names!


9. Vow Books

Help the couple preserve their vows forever with a pair of vow books. Look for ones that can be customized with their initials or that say something like “bride” and “groom” so they can easily spot which one is theirs.


10. Custom Illustrated Map

Start their next chapter with a map that tells a story. A custom illustrated map — maybe of where they met, got engaged, or plan to say "I do" — is a sentimental piece of art that doubles as home décor. These beautifully detailed keepsakes can be framed and cherished for years to come.


11. Personalized Photo Calendar

Who doesn’t love flipping through memories? A personalized photo calendar featuring the couple’s favorite snapshots lets them relive a special moment every month. It’s practical, meaningful, and guaranteed to spark a smile.


12. Foil-Pressed Photo Art

Add a little sparkle to their walls with a foil-pressed art print of one of their favorite photos. Personalize it with their names, initials, or even a meaningful message in a shimmering metallic script. It's a stylish yet emotional gift they’ll treasure.


13. Personalized Recipe Journal

Know a couple who loves to cook together? A customized recipe journal is the perfect place to document their favorite dishes, kitchen experiments, and family recipes. It’s both personal and useful — and will only get more special over time.


14. Personalized Storybook

Make their love story the star of the show with a custom storybook. Whether it’s sweet, funny, or a little bit of both, capturing their journey in a beautifully designed book makes for a truly one-of-a-kind keepsake.


15. Personalized Gift Basket

You can’t go wrong with a thoughtfully curated gift basket. Fill it with treats they love — think champagne, fancy cheese, decadent chocolates — and tie it all together with a personal note or custom packaging. It’s a crowd-pleaser with a personal twist.


Home Decor Gifts

Set the tone for their new life together with gifts that blend comfort and style. These home accents make any space feel more lived-in and loved.

16. Candles

You can never really go wrong with giving a candle as a gift. If you’re close enough to the couple to know what scents they prefer, opt for a nice scented candle. If you’re unsure of their tastes, go for a pair of tapered candles in a fun color or shape for them to use as decor.


17. Candle holders and Candelabras

To make the gift of tapered candles feel more elevated, pair them with candle holders or a candelabra that matches the couple’s style. Simple brass or brushed-metal candlesticks are a failsafe, or you could look for something more funky and sculptural for couples who don’t shy away from bold decor.


18. Matches and Matchboxes

Matchboxes and matchbooks are often overlooked as gifts, but they check all of our gift-giving boxes — they’re beautiful, useful, and are likely something the couple won’t buy for themselves. A unique matchbox or matchbook, especially one that can be customized with the couple’s names, engagement date, and even engagement location, can easily become a cherished (and budget-friendly!) keepsake.


19. Throw Blankets

A handmade or artisanal throw blanket is always a sweet gift idea. Look for a style that is big enough for the couple to cuddle up underneath together and for one in a color that matches their home — neutrals are always a good option!


20. Throw Pillows

Anything that helps the couple feel like they’re building a home together is a good engagement gift idea, and throw pillows definitely fall into this category. Look for designs that are unique, handmade, or that have details that remind you of things the couple loves.


21. Vases

A vase is a classic engagement and wedding gift — and for good reason! To make it feel a little bit more special, give the couple a vase handmade by an artisan in a style that you know will spark a little bit of joy every time they pull it out.


22. Photo Art Prints

Whether they’re planning to do an official engagement shoot or not, you can be sure that the lovebirds will have plenty of photos from this chapter of their life that they’ll want to display. Picking out a beautiful art print or two is a great way to help them show off their love at home. If you have access to a great photo of the couple, you could opt to give them a photo art print alongside a frame.


23. Decorative Bowls

Decorative bowls are a surprisingly useful gift, as they can be used for everything from storing loose change to serving up a delicious homemade dip or batch of salsa. Go for a handmade bowl that features colors or patterns that remind you of the couple to ensure they love it.


24. Trinket Trays

Whether they get used to catch keys or organize a small collection of something the couple loves, trinket trays make for a failsafe engagement gift.


25. Baskets

Help the couple stay organized during what can be an incredibly busy season of life by giving them a few beautiful baskets to use around the house. When picking them out, keep what you know about the couple top of mind — a big basket can be great to store throw blankets for a pair that loves an at-home movie night, while a smaller one may work better as a place to catch toys for pet parents.


26. Textile Art

Add a pop of personality and texture to the couple’s home with statement-making textile art. Whether they lean toward modern minimalism or cozy boho vibes, textile art is a fun and unexpected way to bring character into their home.


27. Decorative Wall Mirror

A decorative mirror is a simple yet versatile gift. Choose one with a distinctive frame — think brass, wood, or rattan — that matches their interior style and adds a hint of elegance to their entryway or living room.


28. Handcrafted Clock

A handcrafted clock is both practical and stylish. Opt for a design that reflects the couple’s vibe, whether it’s mid-century modern, rustic chic, or minimalist. It’s a beautiful way to help them count down the moments of their new chapter.


29. Pot of Succulents

Gift them a pot of low-maintenance succulents — a charming, eco-friendly alternative to fresh flowers. These tiny plants are perfect for brightening up windowsills, shelves, or coffee tables and will last far longer than a bouquet.


30. Handcrafted Lamp

A handcrafted lamp brings warmth and style into the couple’s home. Go for a classic wooden base or something more tech-forward, like a lamp that doubles as a Bluetooth speaker. It’s the perfect way to literally light up their love nest.


31. Planters

For a couple that has green thumbs, a houseplant in a handmade or unique planter is a great engagement gift. Be sure to include a card with the gift that encourages the couple to keep track of how much the plant grows over the course of their engagement as a sweet way to mark this special time.


Kitchen & Entertainment Gifts

Whether they’re hosting friends or cooking together on a quiet night in, these gifts add flavor and style to their kitchen adventures.

32. Charcuterie Boards and Cheese Knives

The hosting has just begun for the happy couple, so get them set up with something that should be in every home entertainer’s arsenal: a good charcuterie board and set of cheese knives. Again, you could opt to go for a board customized with their names or get them one that is simply beautiful.


33. Serving Trays and Platters

Similarly, serving trays and platters of various shapes and sizes are a nice gift to give a newly engaged couple to help make their house feel like a home (and to get them prepped for when it is their turn to host the holidays). Look for trays and platters that feature unique designs and handmade touches to make the gift feel a bit more personal.


34. Glassware

Upgrading the couple’s glassware is always a good idea. A set of champagne flutes is a nice way to expand their collection — but if you know that the couple loves a particular type of cocktail, pick up a set of glasses in a corresponding shape (such as coupe, highball, or lowball glasses) to help them recreate it at home.


35. Barware & Bar Tools

Alternatively, you could arm their inner mixologist with everything they need to create the perfect cocktail for their next at home date night. Look for a set of barware that includes the standard shaker, gigger, and strainer, and then upgrade it with any extra tools they need to recreate their favorite drinks such as a muddler or whiskey rocks.


36. Mugs and Teacups

You really can’t go wrong by giving a handmade mug or set of teacups as an engagement gift. Go for one that can be customized with the couple’s initials (or that say something like Mr. and Mrs.) to make the gift feel more personal.


37. Kitchen Tools

While big-ticket kitchen items like stand mixers and espresso machines are standard fare for wedding registries, you can still gift the couple kitchen tools to mark their engagement. More budget-friendly tools — like a nice garlic press or beautiful pie dish — make for great engagement gift ideas.


38. Serving Bowls and Fruit Bowls

In a similar line of thinking, giving the happy couple a special handmade bowl to use to store fruit or serve up pastas and salads family style is a nice idea. Again, look for a design that you know the couple will appreciate or one that can be customized with a special date or with their initials.


39. Tea Towels

Help even the most mundane moments at home feel a little bit more celebratory by giving the couple a set of fun tea towels to mark their engagement. Go for something customized with their names or with a design that features a ring, champagne flutes, or a bow tie. If you know where the couple will be tying the knot, you could also go with a tea towel in a print that reminds you of their venue for something more subtly festive.


40. Placemats

Help the happy couple up their hosting game with a set of placemats designed and crafted by an independent artisan. A set in a neutral color is always a good idea, but don’t be afraid to go bold with a pattern or color scheme you know the couple will appreciate.


41. Napkins

A beautiful set of high-quality cloth napkins is something the couple is sure to appreciate receiving as an engagement gift. If you aren’t 100 percent sure of their taste, you could opt for a set of fun cocktail napkins instead — look for quirky designs or something that can be customized with their names to mark the special occasion.


42. Tablecloths and Runners

In a similar vein, an engagement party is a nice time to give the couple a tablecloth or runner that they’ll have in their collection for years to come. To ensure the one you pick out will be an heirloom for the newly formed family, look for one that is handmade by an artisan and that features beautiful natural fabric.


43. Set of Favorite Cookbooks

Pick out a trio of cookbooks that reflect the couple’s tastes — maybe something for weeknight dinners, a dessert-focused title, and a cocktail guide for when guests come over. It’s a thoughtful kitchen gift that’ll keep giving with every new recipe they try together.


44. Tea Sampler Kit

A box of curated tea blends (or specialty coffee, depending on their vibe) makes for a cozy and comforting gift. You can pair it with a set of mugs or teacups to make it feel complete.


45. Gourmet Oil & Vinegar Set

Upgrade their countertop with a set of beautifully crafted oil and vinegar bottles. These aren’t just handy for cooking — they add a polished, restaurant-worthy feel to any kitchen setup and are a subtle way to elevate everyday meals.


46. Cocktail Picks

For the couple that enjoys playing mixologist at home, a cool set of cocktail picks adds flair to their drinks. Think sleek, handcrafted pieces that feel like a little luxury without going overboard.


47. Spreader Set

These aren’t your average kitchen tools. A well-made spreader set brings both charm and function to any cheese board or snack setup. It’s a simple upgrade that makes casual nights feel special.


48. Custom Wine Box

If you know the couple loves to open up a bottle of wine over dinners at home, give them a lovely way to store and display their collection. Many artisans make boxes that can be customized with names, initials, and dates — and that come with surprising features like wine glass storage.


Cozy Gift Ideas

Give the couple an excuse to slow down. These cozy comforts are made for unwinding and reconnecting.

49. Robes

Wedding planning can be hard work! Give the newly engaged couple a set of plush robes to help them make the most of their downtime.


50. Gift Boxes

Gift boxes are a great budget-friendly gift idea. Minted’s marketplace has gift boxes that are perfect for every type of couple, so look for one designed to make doing some of their favorite things a little bit more special. Think a box full of sweet treats for a home movie night, one stocked with candles and lotion to turn their home into a spa, or one packed with different types of tea for them to try together.


51. Jewelry Stands or Jewelry Boxes

While getting engaged means that the couple’s jewelry collection has grown by at least one ring, you can bet that there will be a lot more jewelry shopping involved in the wedding planning process. Something to keep all of those precious pieces of jewelry safe and organized — like a one-of-a-kind jewelry stand or box — makes for an excellent engagement gift.


52. Ring Dishes

A ring dish is a must-have for every newly engaged couple! Give them a handmade dish featuring a beautiful pattern or their initials to keep their ring safe on their bedside tables or in their bathroom.


53. Luxe Towels

Soft, absorbent, and effortlessly stylish — a great set of towels is something every couple will appreciate. Choose classic tones that blend easily with any bathroom, and you’ve got a gift that’s both thoughtful and functional.


54. Set of Wooden Massage Tools

Help them bring the spa to their own home with a set of smooth, ergonomic massage tools. It’s a unique way to promote relaxation and unwind together after long days or during wedding planning stress.


55. Luxury Slippers

A plush pair of slippers can turn a regular morning into a cozy ritual. Look for soft, cushioned styles in neutral shades, and you’ve got a gift that combines comfort and charm with ease.


Fun & Unique Experience Gifts

Skip the traditional route and surprise the couple with something unexpected. These ideas are all about creating memories together.

56. Yard Games

If the couple has a backyard or lives near a park, giving them a yard game is a great engagement gift idea. You can’t go wrong with a cornhole set (especially one customized with their names), but if you know they already have one in their collection, go for something unexpected like croquette, ladder toss, or lawn bowling.


57. Custom Pickleball Paddle

For sporty couples who like to stay active together, a set of personalized pickleball paddles makes a fun and unexpected gift. It’s great for friendly competition and even better when it's custom-made just for them.


58. Game Sets

Classic games can turn an ordinary night into something memorable. Choose a beautifully crafted set of chinese checkers or mancala — something they’ll reach for often and proudly leave out on the coffee table.


59. Custom Puzzle

Want to gift them a quiet evening in? A custom puzzle featuring one of their favorite photos gives them a low-key, meaningful activity they can enjoy side by side.


60. Tickets to a Unique Experience

Skip the wrapping paper and give them something to look forward to — tickets to a special outing or adventure, from hot air balloon rides to weekend getaways. Just pick something that feels like them..


Common Questions About Engagement Gifts

Not sure what the rules are when it comes to engagement gift-giving? Here are answers to the most common ones — from spending guidelines to what’s actually expected (hint: there are no hard rules).

Do I have to bring a gift to an engagement party?

It’s not mandatory, but it’s a kind gesture. If it’s a formal party or hosted by the couple’s family, bringing a gift is appreciated. For casual get-togethers, even a bottle of wine or a card is thoughtful.


How much should I spend on an engagement gift?

It depends on your relationship with the couple. A typical range is $25–$75. Close friends or family members might spend more, while casual acquaintances can stick to smaller, meaningful gifts.


What makes a good engagement gift?

The best gifts feel personal or useful — think keepsakes that mark the moment, something the couple can enjoy together, or items that make home life a little sweeter.


Can I gift something that is not on the couple’s registry?

Absolutely! Engagement registries are rare. This is a great chance to give something unique or sentimental that reflects your connection with the couple.


Should the gift be for both people in the couple?

Yes — aim for something they can enjoy together or that reflects their shared tastes. Personalized items, home décor, or experience-based gifts are great for this.


Is cash okay as an engagement gift?

Cash or gift cards are perfectly acceptable, especially if you're unsure what they need. Just be sure to include a heartfelt note to make it feel more personal.


Celebrating the Couple with the Perfect Engagement Gift

Engagement gifts don’t have to be extravagant — they just need to be thoughtful. Whether you’re leaning sentimental, practical, or experience-driven, the best gift is one that celebrates the couple in a way that feels true to them. From cozy comforts to creative keepsakes, there's something on this list to suit every kind of love story. For even more engagement gift inspiration, you can browse Minted’s entire selection of gifts designed and crafted by independent artists and artisans from around the world.